Jennifer Lopez is fed up of being a victim in her love affairs - and is determined to give less in future relationships. The singer and actress says she wised up after going out with SEAN ' PUFFY' COMBS, and won't put up with men who take advantage of her anymore.

She says, "Up until now I was always a giver in relationships and now I am taking something back. I'm not putting up with it anymore. " But the sexy star hasn't given up on romance - and insists that meeting her current fiancee CHRIS JUDD was, "Not chance but fate". (KW/WNWCAN)

Source: WENN